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Post by Brent on Mar 25, 2010 21:27:01 GMT -5
It's ok Katie, if you ever get lonely you can join a star wars or goonies forum and find your dream guy there.
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Post by Jacob on Mar 25, 2010 21:36:36 GMT -5
ooooh maybe some of them could do the truffle shuffle! ;D
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Post by Katie on Mar 25, 2010 22:57:19 GMT -5
She actually loved me all this time. Don't you have a girlfriend? It's ok Katie, if you ever get lonely you can join a star wars or goonies forum and find your dream guy there. I've given up on that. The trend of every relationship of mine ending because they find somebody better than me won't be ending anytime soon.
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Post by Zhou Tai 04 on Mar 25, 2010 23:29:21 GMT -5
question to engaged couples: how do you know you're sexually compatible if you don't have sex before marriage I'm not engaged yet, but talking about it a lot in great detail certainly helps, discussing what you want in a completely open manner, and what sex personally means for you. As for importance...maybe 8 or 9 for both of us? Enough to really want it at least once every day.
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Post by Zhou Tai 04 on Mar 25, 2010 23:36:58 GMT -5
As for the whole marriage thing, it'd make no difference to us in terms of values if we don't wait until we get married, and honestly, we most likely won't. We've already made the commitment to each other and are absolutely certain of it. As far as we're concerned, we already are married; we just haven't gone through all the logistical/legal stuff yet, which we don't see as a prerequisite for being able to have sex. Where we are in the relationship determines our intimacy level: sexual, emotional, etc.
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Post by Brent on Mar 25, 2010 23:50:53 GMT -5
how long have you been with her
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Post by Zhou Tai 04 on Mar 25, 2010 23:59:05 GMT -5
In other words, we don't let 'marriage' define our relationship; we treat it as simply a public expression of our personal commitment [which is already defined], a natural extension of it. To make an analogy of this, I would say that marriage is to a commited relationship as baptism is to salvation.
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Post by Zhou Tai 04 on Mar 26, 2010 0:11:40 GMT -5
how long have you been with her 10 months, though we were getting to know each other for several months prior to that. Our friendship, which initially started off quite minimally (due to very complicated circumstances, and also neither of us had any preconceived intentions, we just cared about each other and had an unusually strong connection), gradually and naturally progressed into what we have now.
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Post by notavailable on Mar 26, 2010 0:27:58 GMT -5
You've met her in person right?
Right?
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Post by Brent on Mar 26, 2010 0:28:17 GMT -5
pics
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Post by notavailable on Mar 26, 2010 0:33:33 GMT -5
pics of BOTH of you
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Post by Zhou Tai 04 on Mar 26, 2010 0:45:57 GMT -5
Sorry, not yet.
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Post by Jacob on Mar 26, 2010 0:55:18 GMT -5
You've met her in person right? Right?
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Post by Josh on Mar 26, 2010 10:17:32 GMT -5
She actually loved me all this time. Don't you have a girlfriend? Yes, I do.
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Post by Jeremy on Mar 26, 2010 12:05:57 GMT -5
Don't you have a girlfriend? Yes, I do. Pics dammit, pics
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