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Post by Kyle on Feb 7, 2005 23:42:56 GMT -5
hey my name is kyle jones and my parents have jsut called me and my sister laura in and told us they have been think about gettin back together... i know some of you are thinking it wont be bad but you dont understand at all of how our lifes are goin to change so drasticly.... we will loose alot of things we usually do my personal opinion is we wont beable to go to the shma shows anymore because our dad hates that music and i know ill be gettin a major hair cut .... my dad is a really really bad alcoholic he's abussive and does alot of dumb things when hes drunk... i have jsut got an idea and if they get together i will be moving away ... i dont know where to yet but probably with a family memeber or maybe hopefully a friend.. but all i can ask you is to pray that the right outcome will happen and it will change for the best ....
thank you ,
god bless
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Post by Solid on Feb 8, 2005 0:01:00 GMT -5
I don't know what to say, but have faith in God and pray everyday. My parents are thinking about seperating and so far, nothing has happened. I have been praying a lot more, and things are changing. Just pray to God that His will be done because His way is the only way.
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Post by Laura on Feb 8, 2005 12:31:20 GMT -5
Yeah, also, our mom told us that she might have lung cancer. We're not sure yet but she's supposed to have the test results soon. I keep hoping that this part was a dream you know? She kinda surprised us with it last night...
But yeah, Kyle's right, we do need a LOT of prayer right now. I think we're both having a really hard time with it.
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Post by JohnnyMetal on Feb 8, 2005 12:53:51 GMT -5
 Well, if I wasn't praying for guys before, which I am, I really am now.
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Post by attr on Feb 8, 2005 15:58:08 GMT -5
I will certainly keep all of you in prayer as well. There's one scripture that has always really helped placed things in perspective for me, Philippians 4:7:
And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
I pray that we all walk in this peace. A peace, that the world my not quite understand or grasp... but a peace nonetheless. It's funny, I've only posted a couple of times on here and I already feel like I'm home. Take you guys.
God bless
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Post by Kyle on Feb 8, 2005 16:38:32 GMT -5
im just gonna say thanks to all of yall for praying for us and being here for us....
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Post by Laura on Feb 8, 2005 20:50:53 GMT -5
im just gonna say thanks to all of yall for praying for us and being here for us.... I'll 2nd that. It means a lot that all yall are praying for us. |
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Post by Solid on Feb 9, 2005 1:28:27 GMT -5
One of my friend's dad had lung cancer...no one knew until my friend spoke up about it. My friend's dad didn't want anyone to know, but everyone prayed for him and now he has no cancer at all. God works quick sometimes, sometimes slow, but God always answers prayer.
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Post by JohnnyMetal on Feb 9, 2005 9:15:33 GMT -5
Going back to the divorced thing, I read in Purpose Driven Life that before a Christian becomes a Christian, that they experience Rev 3:20 a little differently. Instead of knocking, Jesus comes bombing. That was how I felt from between July of 97 to December 97. It was during that time that my ex and I separated, played mind games, listened to verbal threats and all kinds of other junk. Christmas Eve 97 was when I surrendered.
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Post by Kyle on Feb 10, 2005 21:06:08 GMT -5
One of my friend's dad had lung cancer...no one knew until my friend spoke up about it. My friend's dad didn't want anyone to know, but everyone prayed for him and now he has no cancer at all. God works quick sometimes, sometimes slow, but God always answers prayer. my mom was goin to do the same thing she wasnt goin to tell anyone until it got obvious because she didnt want people walking on egg shells around.. I'm really glad she didnt cause i think i would have taken it even worse then i already did... Thanks Johnny.. I need to read the book youve told me about it before ill probably check out family christian and see if they got it.. sorry about the split up i know it was probably really hard to go through.. but you met from what i hear a really good women.. |
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Post by JohnnyMetal on Feb 11, 2005 9:53:32 GMT -5
Mrs Metal is a very cool lady. How she puts up with me, I'll never know. We've had a lot of ups and downs and I'm sure we will still have a lot of them. She went with me to the old Shma when Norma Jean played there and she made it through that night, scared silly, but she made it.
We've broadened our horizons a little bit when it comes to things the other likes to do. Her more than me, sad to say. I've tried to watch her kind of movies, you know, chick flicks and sappy musicals. And, hey, I wind up actually liking them. Now, she won't get in a pit and mosh with me but that is ok, because I wouldn't want her to get hurt. Even though she could take a few people out. ;D But, each day is a learning experience. We're learning more and more about each other and how we're serving God.
My first marriage didn't have God in it. We knew of God, and acknowledged Him but didn't live for Him. We lived for ourselves and lived for the stuff of the world. And Lord knows we had stuff!
Kyle, Laura, and Alan, if you read any of this and want to know more about my life, please, feel free to ask me anything. I have nothing to hide. And that goes for anyone, really. My prayer is talk about my life in a way that helps people not make the same mistakes I did.
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Post by Kyle on Feb 11, 2005 21:08:16 GMT -5
johnny i think i love you... if you werent married i would marry you..... lol haha................................ j/k
yea i can understand having ups and downs I mean noone will have the most perfect marriage.... and hey you got her to go to a Norma Jean show... props too that... and that would be soo awsome if she got in the pits though.
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Post by Laura on Feb 12, 2005 20:46:42 GMT -5
Every relationship has its ups and downs. It's how you deal with those type things that determine whether or not the relationship will last. I'll be the first to admit that me and Alan have had some rough moments, but I know that because we both keep God first in our lives, everything will be ok and work out. Also, it's awesome to see that you're willing to broaden your horizons for your wife Johnny, not many people would do that. Yall have a strong relationship and I'm always praying for yall.
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Post by JohnnyMetal on Feb 12, 2005 21:19:13 GMT -5
And we pray for you guys as well. We didn't really date all that much since we had 900 miles apart for the early months of our relationship. But, we talked a lot, both on the phone, through e-mails and chats online. So, we had the communication thing down pretty good. So, thank you! And I hope we didn't bore you guys today?
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Post by Laura on Feb 12, 2005 21:48:35 GMT -5
Not at all, I loved finally getting to meet your wife. She seems really awesome to talk to and I really would love it if we could all get together again. Think it could work?
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