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Post by Scott on May 31, 2010 8:10:01 GMT -5
One action in particular, sure, but one conversation? No... Yes, the conversation can be about coming clean about something. You know, not cheating is not difficult.
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Post by Brent on May 31, 2010 15:27:55 GMT -5
It doesn't have to necessarily be about cheating. Any vice can apply. But bottom line to the bottom line, you guys better hope your women don't get accustomed to anything and expect everything to be handed to them. Keeping a marriage fresh overtime is quite a feat imo. Be a man and just get used to saying "no." now rather than later. You'll want to thank me one day.
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Post by Jacob on May 31, 2010 15:29:15 GMT -5
I hate to say it, but I think Brent has a point here.
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Post by davo on May 31, 2010 15:33:53 GMT -5
if a couple didn't agree on some things, there's probably something fundamentally wrong with the relationship. you've got to be able to back down on some things, and your partner has got to be able to do the same.
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Post by Brent on May 31, 2010 15:34:41 GMT -5
Women backing down.
That's a knee-slapper.
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Post by Scott on May 31, 2010 22:48:36 GMT -5
Thanks, Dr. Brent. As if none of us have no idea what we're getting into.
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Post by Brent on May 31, 2010 23:10:35 GMT -5
anytime.
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Post by Fyacin on Jun 1, 2010 8:55:55 GMT -5
Have you actually had a real relationship with a woman? You sound like some 15 year old making the out to be demagogues of irrationality.
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Post by notavailable on Jun 1, 2010 12:45:00 GMT -5
He's right.
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Post by Brent on Jun 1, 2010 16:10:31 GMT -5
"real relationship with a woman"
no I've obviously only had a fake one. Hurrrrr
If anyone would actually like to refute my stance that the more emotion you put into ANYTHING (women, dog, God, DOESN'T MATTER) the more horrible you feel if that relationship is severed for whatever reason (breaking up, death, finding out your God doesn't exist DOESN'T MATTER) then be my guest.
The bottom line to the bottom line of the bottom line: Emotion is a double-edged sword. It can be the greatest feeling in the world to feel wonderful emotions such as "love" and "belonging". But it can also be the source of "depression" "hate" and "sorrow".
I had two periods of my life where I was more emotional and it created unbalanced states. Learning from mistakes rules though, everything in moderation .
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Post by notavailable on Jun 1, 2010 16:38:41 GMT -5
"real relationship with a woman" no I've obviously only had a fake one. Hurrrrr If anyone would actually like to refute my stance that the more emotion you put into ANYTHING (women, dog, God, DOESN'T MATTER) the more horrible you feel if that relationship is severed for whatever reason (breaking up, death, finding out your God doesn't exist DOESN'T MATTER) then be my guest. The bottom line to the bottom line of the bottom line: Emotion is a double-edged sword. It can be the greatest feeling in the world to feel wonderful emotions such as "love" and "belonging". But it can also be the source of "depression" "hate" and "sorrow". I had two periods of my life where I was more emotional and it created unbalanced states. Learning from mistakes rules though, everything in moderation . this
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Post by Jeremy on Jun 1, 2010 18:39:36 GMT -5
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Post by Scott on Jun 1, 2010 20:00:56 GMT -5
If anyone would actually like to refute my stance that the more emotion you put into ANYTHING (women, dog, God, DOESN'T MATTER) the more horrible you feel if that relationship is severed for whatever reason (breaking up, death, finding out your God doesn't exist DOESN'T MATTER) then be my guest. The bottom line to the bottom line of the bottom line: Emotion is a double-edged sword. It can be the greatest feeling in the world to feel wonderful emotions such as "love" and "belonging". But it can also be the source of "depression" "hate" and "sorrow". It's not about emotion.
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Post by Josh on Jun 1, 2010 21:32:32 GMT -5
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Post by The Worm on Jun 1, 2010 22:05:39 GMT -5
Well being an emotional teenager who thinks "nothing matters but love, I gots this girlfriend who I would commit genocide for!" and then commits suicide when they break up a week later because he left the toilet seat up is one thing, and acutally being an adult that can learn how to have a give-and-take relationship made of mutal respect and adoration with someone who coincides well with your personality is another.
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